«Mum, I do not wish to eat this opposite porridge!»

06.08.08 / Children / Author:
Tags: feeding, mum, the child

Yes, probably, each mum heard such words, and everyone solves this problem in one direction. All is reduced to that the child force to eat with any cunnings nevertheless this squash. One I am persuaded, others buy, promising for the eaten bowl to reduce the child in circus or to buy video game, the third – abuse, force directly force is. But among all approaches all is reduced to that the child necessarily should eat all as it is useful. Let's look at this problem in another way and we will try to understand the kid. Probably, such way is more effective?

Secrets to force the child to eat useful it is a lot of. The first with what we will begin, it in general for meal. Well the child does not want is, think, he from hunger will die? Such cases it was not observed, if does not want, it is not necessary to force, will want – itself will ask. Besides the thin child, is much more healthy little man, than thick. Also it is the fact, therefore, better let eats less, than it is more. From an overeating in the childhood, problems in the future begin, and it threatens with serious threat of health and even leads to death. Therefore, it is not necessary to force to eat up and eat with force all, and is, that cheeks were chubby. It is not so beautiful, and at times and is awful!

The second, is conversation on "forbidden fruit". If not to give a sweet, means, to them lasts smothering. If constantly to give porridge, to it the soul does not lay and hatred comes even. What for to such to suppose? Does not wish to eat porridge, wants sweets, give it it. Think, sweet he will eat much? No! After ten chocolates he will understand, what not all so is simple and from them will begin toshnit, and it leads to love to the same useful porridge. See, all is very simple.

Further about utility. Vitamins are everywhere, and morozhennoe them has! Therefore, if the child does not love there is a salad from cabbage, let will eat oranges, bananas or other fruit which like. Here not less vitamins. Does not love porridge, it is possible to replace it with other products. It will not do much harm at all, besides, if porridge is not frequent, it it will be obligatory to like. Simply we do not forget, that all is eaten.

And the last, it it is necessary to put itself to the place of the child. Well, you would sustain is, constantly porridge? I think, that is not present. Or that to you friends if you treated them with constantly such meal have told? The same, they would hate you, though it and very much is strongly told, but nevertheless. It is necessary to know when to stop, alternate, then all will eat.

And now we will sum up told and we will think, unless each told word it not true? Yes! It! If the child to feed not only something with one, to treat with sweets and other sweets, to give the option then problems with a food will not be. After all all these inconsistent generated stereotypes, bring up in young men hatred to really useful. And in years we will have that already adult person will not understand that is useful for it and that is not present. Will try to catch up missed and to spoil the organism. And the measure after all is necessary everywhere. Therefore, we study to feed children correctly and psychologically themselves to adjust prishchepit good appetite, taste and love to meal and. Here such interesting approach which is very good way to learn the kid there is everything, and to love any meal. Mum should take care, that the kid not only has grown healthy, but also without psychological traumas which in such trifles and wake up.

Good luck in feeding.