The kind, good woman, the clear head. About the help to colleagues.

15.09.08 / the Woman and work / Author:
Tags: kind, the woman, the clear head, good

The woman kind by nature, all need to help it and everyone, to everyone to please. The majority are that, and the problem with it arises on work. To help it is necessary, of course, but it becomes frequent delusion. And the most insulting when this help do not appreciate, and wish it constantly.

Here the girlfriend has asked to be on duty instead of it, the friend asked to help with the new project, the neighbour very much asked to find in the Internet some information, the neigbour to buy or take away the child from a garden. Both every day one and too, requirements vary, but their quantity does not run low. Everyone and everyone is exhausted by forces from the poor woman more and more, and it such kind, good helps. Simply clear head, all praise it, probably, but what it has? Gratitude and desolation of the career!

To help it is necessary always with mind and superfluous work never to take for itself. And it does not contradict kindness, the woman should be kind, the clear head, but also kind and to itself. If the girlfriend has asked that the child was ill, this sacred, but is not forgotten, and most to take advantage of the same girlfriend, instead of to call the grandmother to the aid, let the grandmother will have a rest. If the acquaintance asks to help with the project, ask, that he wants, give some practical advice, but no more. Work over the projects if is not present is better – take, show to the heads, that you too can. And the colleague let does not take impracticable tasks, hoping, that the girlfriend on office will help it, and laurels will be dressed by him. As well with other problems and questions, the neighbour can take advantage of Internet cafe or less occupied friends, the neigbour let employs the nurse or leaves from such occupied work if it does not have time to look for the child. It not your problems!!! Also we remember, that you also will be good, enough, that everything have gained the girlfriend at whom the child was ill, on it will suffice. After all we do not forget, that, helping everything, all on you will leave upwards, and you remain below with new and new problems, and to recollect … anybody you will not recollect. The colleague becomes the chief, the neighbour will grow in the business, the neigbour will promote and will bring up the child, and all thanks to you. Unless it is not better to spend this time for the dite, the work? Better and it will not be means, that you only love yourselves. The relation when all ask the help is simple, and you agree, not reflecting, it is usual operation of female trustfulness and kindness.

The woman should be kind, good, the clear head, but not the slave at exploiters who have got used to leave at the expense of another's work! Here about what we wished to tell and try to learn everyone the woman to be able to stand for ourselves, to achieve in a life of success and to be able to tell always a word «Are not present! Excuse» to similar exploiters of female trustfulness.

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